The date is on for tomorrow night. Now I have to obsess over what to wear...oh the delima. I have officially decided this dating thing is fun. These butterflies are well worth the anguish.
I am pretty impressed so far with this guy. Not only has he called when he say's going to, he sends the sweetest texts. On one hand it does make me a little freaked out (ie "I haven't even met you yet..."), on the other it's completely adorable. I am most impressed with our conversation tonight. He called to confirm tomorrow's rendevue and to find out what I wanted to do. He prefaced this by saying he's not going to make me choose where we go, he just wanted to know what I was up for (dinner, drinks, etc) and then he'd come up with a plan. A guy that can take the reigns and isn't afraid of doing it? I am loving this!
On a completely and totally different note, I've had a breakthrough with F-head, err, Farhad. Most of you don't know the back story so I'll make it brief but fill you in: for the past 3 months or so he's pretended not to have a car (just like he pretended to be homeless all the while living in $600K condo). Give me a flippin break. I know good and well he still has the Escalade (Uh, dumbass, I have seen you driving it on more than one occasion). He's gone to GREAT lengths to try to hide the care (it's quite hysterical actually). So I have to not only drop Layla off to see him, but also pick her up. This wouldn't be so horrible if he spent more than 2 hours with her! It gives me zero time to do anything I need to do. I promised myself that after the D was finalized I wasn't playing nice anymore. I tried really hard to hold true to my word. I just didn't want it to hurt Layla and her time with him. This has nothing to do with Layla...it has everything to do with the principle of it. He's trying to make my life miserable as opposed to trying to spend more time with his daugther. Last Thurs I picked her up and ran into the store right across from his place. I watched him drive off in the Caddy (after he told me 2 hours earlier he couldn't bring her home b/c he didn't have car). Lovely. So we had a little battle (over text of course because talking on the phone would just be way to hard for him) that didn't end so pretty. He went "out of town" for 5 days so I hadn't seen or talked to him since. So....that brings us to today. He text me (of course) to tell me he wanted to change the "schedule" and start picking her up from school every M, W and F. So apparently it worked. Maybe he's come to his senses and realizes trying to make my life hell is only hurting his relationship with his daughter. I am meeting him at her school at 4pm tomorrow to show him "how to check her out". Yeah...she's been going to this school for almost 6 months and he's never been there. Again, lovely. We'll see how this goes tomorrow, but I feel like maybe, just maybe, we've turned a little corner.
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