I'm a lot of things. There's one thing I am not: stupid. Apparently after 7 years on being in a relationship with F-head he never figured this out. I am so irritated right now I could scream. He's un-f-ing-believable.
For the past month or so I have been trying to get him to take Layla overnight here and there to help me out. I haven't asked for much (maybe once every other week). However every time I ask he comes with a different excuse. Actually, the excuse is pretty much the same: he has to go out of town. The reason varies somewhat: baseball tournament or he's running a race.
So last week I planned a little weekend get-a-way for myself the last weekend in March. I haven't had an entire weekend to myself in, well, 8 years. I emailed him with the dates I was going to be gone (4 nights total) and asked if he could at least help with one of those nights. He didn't respond which didn't surprise me. After all, he was in the California from last Sunday until Wednesday on vacation. I had also asked to see if he could take her this Friday night as I wanted to go out...I knew he would HAVE to say 'no' to something and this would give him a night to say 'no' to. My strategy failed.
So I call him this evening since I had never heard back from him. First off, I ask if he got my email. His response: "No. I don't have internet access. At work or on my phone". Um...bullshit. You get a brand new I-Phone about every 3 months and just last week you were showing me something online on your phone when I picked up Layla. Seriously...he must think I'm stupid. I go on to tell him the content of my email was several upcoming dates I needed him to pitch in and take Layla overnight.
Before I could even tell him the actual dates he tells me, "Well, I am going to be running in a race this Saturday morning at 7am. Then the last weekend in March I am running in race that is Fri-Sun.". I say, "That's odd. Those are the exact dates I emailed you about. What a coincidence." After he tried to lie his way out of his own stupidity, I go on to tell him the last weekend in March I am leaving Thurs and coming back Mon so maybe he can help out on either Thurs or Sun nights (since his race was Fri-Sun and he told me about 2 mins prior it was in Kansas City). This is were it gets good.
He says (and actually expects me to believe), "I'm running a circuit marathon. 26.2 miles in St Louis on Fri. 26.2 Miles in Kansas City on Saturday. Then another 26.2 miles in Denver on Sunday. I've already booked my ticket for Denver. So, sorry. Can't help.".
Are you F-ING kidding me??? First of all, he doesn't run long distance. Second of all, 3 marathons in a row???? I might be blonde, but I am not stupid. He is such a mother f-ing a-hole. On second thought...maybe I am the stupid one: I married the mother f-ing a-hole to begin with.
I am f-ing pissed (can you tell by all my f-bombs?). I just can't over his blatent lying. I also can't over the fact that he doesn't want to spend more time with his daughter. This boggles my mind. I've always thought (and probably always will) that his reasons are not because of spending time with Layla, but because of me. He wants to make my life as difficult as possible and by saying 'no' EVERY time I ask for extra help he someway thinks he's accomplishing this. Again, he's un-f-ing-believable.
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