Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Participation Medals

Who doesn't love a great crazy ex story. I will preface this by saying our relationship has improved ten-fold over the past 12 months. We can actually have meaningful conversations that extend beyond just "what time did L eat?". However, he still does stupid stuff. I thinks it's inherent.

I mean who the in hell thinks it's a good idea to leave town for 3 weeks and not tell their ex a) where they are going and b) how to get a hold of him. This is the 2nd (yes, 2nd) time in the last 6 months the idiot has done this. I mean really? News flash...you have a CHILD. I could give a shit where you are and what you are doing but for god's sake if something were to happen it would probably be in your best interest for me to be able to get a hold you. I have suspicions that he's out of the country visiting his 23 year old girlfriend that lives overseas. Why he feels the need to keep these things from me is beyond me. I told him 2 months I hope he finds happiness and gets remarried.

So this morning I received a FB email from her telling me it's over between them. Girlfriend, you are not the first and probably won't be the last poor sap that has contacted me because they got their heart broken by him and now you think he's crazy. Newsflash...I've known he's crazy for years. Why in the hell do these women feel the need to reach out to me? Do you think I'm going to give them a participation medal? Sorry, I already walked away with the winning trophy 4 years ago when the divorced was finalized.

And so it goes...

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