Monday, January 12, 2009

The Exclusivity Talk

Ya all are definitely due for an update...so much has happened since last Wednesday.

Where to start???

Friday night McScotty and I had a fun night out. We went to see a movie (The Unborn...don't go see it...it was awful!!!), then we grabbed some sushi and met some of my friends out. Aside from a brief introduction of a few friends on New Years, this was the first time he had actually hung out with friends. I was a little nervous given the way F-head treated all my friends, but I knew he would be just fine. And he was. He had so much fun and so did I. I think my friends liked him too. While I know I like him a lot, the opinion of those close to me are really important.

I didn't think I'd get to see him again until today as he had his son the rest of the weekend but Saturday night his son had something going on so McScotty came over to hang out. It was wonderful. We had a lot of fun and a lot of really 'deep' talks. Both of us agreed that we really didn't have any desire to see anyone else. A week ago I was trying to prepare myself for how to get out of this "exclusivity" discussion, but now it just feels so right. I have no desire to go out with anyone else. It just seems like a colossal waste of my time and theirs. And why? Just so I can say I did it? I don't need to go out with 20 assholes to realize how wonderful McScotty is...I already know. And if 3 months from now I decide he isn't 'it', I can certainly start dating again. It's not like I'm getting married next week. Right now I am extremely comfortable with where things are and extremely happy. It feels so right.

The other day he sent me this link...it's such a perfect song (and yes, it's KISS):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8LSQNdkXPY

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